Worth the wait

When do you know if a person is worth the wait? After you go through so much with them does it get better or worse? Imagine not being able to talk to the love of your life for over a year. If you waited for them would it be worth it? Do you love that person? If that person loves you, they would wait for you too. If they wait and they love you, wouldn't they do absolutely anything for you? Specifically, if you ask them to just stay home one day during the week without any plans just for you and if they won't do it then that would tell you that they wouldn't do ANYTHING for you which means it's not true love. Unless it was for your family its different. Love is so complicated, but you know when you're in love. No matter how old you are. It's not just for grown ups. Things and people have changed so things will never go back the same way. After everything you go through, is it worth the wait?